When I was a lad, I
learned that criticism was, “I don’t like...” followed by an
opinion. Anxious to become a grup, I emulated my elders. That
criticism always felt bad at launch, and didn’t provide any light
or happiness.
When I got to the point
where I had to lead the parade, that kind of criticism cost way too
much. I’ve never had that kind of resource to waste.
Stumbling around, I
figured out that effective criticism would either establish context
or expand meaning. Elegant criticism does both.
I’ve done that twice in
the domain of selling.
One, when I redefined and
was able to cancel out Objections
in the Four Step
Sales Framework. That was a major win. By avoiding swirling down
the drain of objections we had eliminated the primary bubble of sales
management speculative fiction.
The second time was
figuring out how to effectively use evaluation in Sale
Lab Status Meetings. Too often evaluation is the process
described in the first paragraph of this post. People know those
evaluations are uncomfortable, and generate a lot more heat than
light, so they schedule tsunamis and air raids to get out of them.
What if there were two
questions for effective evaluation, and they generated consistently
excellent results? Would you try using them?
Here are the questions.
What did we do right? And What do we do next? My
experience is that just asking those two questions opens the next
level of excellence.
What are the improvements
you remember creating?
February
22nd Sales
Lab’s Rainmaker 12 is WhatHave
I Done for You Lately?
at
the Capital
Technology Management Hub on
Wednesday, February 22nd.
The featured CTMH speaker will be Sean
Crowley
on
the topic of The
Open Source Web Content
Management Platform, Drupal, and its Momentum.
Dick:
ReplyDeleteWhen the review starts with "...,but," the target stops listening and starts composing the "yeah, but..." response - neither person is advancing toward the goal line.
When I taught managers about performance reviews, I would tell them to pick the behavior they wanted more of and highlight it in the review. When taken together, the score and the illustration of why they had received it would lead to more instances of the desired behavior. My question to the manager - 'since the reverse is also true, how much time do you want to spend on highlighting the bad stuff?'
Elegant!